Bieng a black woman is really hard sometimes
I am attractive I know that but to other eyes simply because of my pigment, my brown skin, I am not attractive
Like I don’t have that luxury of asking myself “does he like blondes or brunettes? Does he like skinny or fat? Does he like short or tall?” I have to ask before anything “does he even like black women”
And it hurts the most when your own black men look at you and dont find you attractive. It hurts so much and we as black women can’t complain because then we’re bitter and jealous.
I know I am beautiful I am attractive and I am really pretty but sometimes it would be nice to get the attention the way white women get the attention the universal beauty attention.